before you date a girl with a mental illness, remember: saying, “you’re beautiful” won’t balance the chemicals in her brain.
and don’t fucking say, “i’ll be here for you, no matter what,” if you don’t mean it.
don’t think you’re fixing her by saying, “i love you.” because you’re not
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before you date anyone
IF YOU EVER GET IN A FIGHT WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER JUST BREATHE IN THE HELIUM OUT OF A BALLOON AND HAVE AN ARGUMENT AND THE FIRST ONE TO LAUGH LOSES
you just put every marriage counsellor out of business
Today I thought to myself I hope she hurts you. I hope she comes into your life like a tornado at 3 am and turns your world upside down and then leaves you with nothing.
But then I thought a little harder and figured out what I really hope for.
I hope she buys you flowers just to see the color your cheeks turn when you blush. I hope she tells you cheesy jokes just to hear your obnoxious laugh that she oddly has came to love. I hope she brings you chocolate to see your eyes light up. I hope she always tickles your back until you fall asleep. I hope she is always there for you when you’re up in the middle of the night and you can’t fall back asleep. I hope she always makes plans for you two and shows you off when she takes you out. I hope she washes your back in the shower. I hope she knows how to deal with you when you begin to push her away. I hope she does everything right and I hope she makes you oh so happy. I hope she is absolutely perfect to you
But more than anything I hope one day she does something that reminds you of me and you think of what you lost. And I hope you think of all we had. I hope you think of how much better I could do everything she does. I hope you find yourself craving my touch.
And I hope on this day you creep on my twitter and see that I’ve stopped talking about wanting you to come back and how I can’t sleep at 4 am. I hope you see that I am happy with someone else. More than that I hope you see that I am happy with myself, that I finally fixed myself. That I finally picked up the mess you made.
And I hope you go to sleep in her arms that night and realize that she doesn’t look at you the way I did when my head was in your lap when we were in the backseat of my car. And I hope you notice that she doesn’t kiss you the way I did, that she doesn’t kiss you with her entire being. And I hope you wake up searching for my face and are disappointed when you see hers.
I hope she makes you so happy, and then I hope she makes you so sad. Because she is not me.(via girlsdoe)
a girl in love wit u (via coolboyclub)
Hold their hand and then never touch their skin again,
See them nearly everyday and pretend they don’t exist,
Act like everything you ever said to them was a lie. (via coyotegold)
losing an argument when you are right just because the other person is too stupid to understand what you’re saying is probably one of the most infuriating things in the entire universe